I watched a video today that made me tear up. This man, an unsung hero, is proof that everyday miracles exist and that, little by little, one by one, we can each make the world a better place.
Everyday Miracles
Tuesday, October 7, 2014
Unsung Hero
I watched a video today that made me tear up. This man, an unsung hero, is proof that everyday miracles exist and that, little by little, one by one, we can each make the world a better place.
Monday, September 15, 2014
Stay Strong (Cassidy Stay)
Even before this summer, I absolutely loved this quote from J.K. Rowling/Dumbledore in Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban:
But now I love it even more.
This is because of Cassidy Stay, who I was privileged to meet two months ago (I'm on the left, Cassidy is in the middle, my twin sister is on the right).
As most people know, Cassidy's family was tragically murdered and she emerged as "the Girl Who Lived," also saving many of her relatives' lives with her heroic actions.
As most people know, Cassidy's family was tragically murdered and she emerged as "the Girl Who Lived," also saving many of her relatives' lives with her heroic actions.
Even though we only got to spend a few hours together, I will always remember her and her example to me (and to the world). Cassidy is an amazing person and nothing I can say can do her justice. Her faith and strength are truly a miracle. Stay strong, Cassidy!
For another insight into Cassidy's story and how it/she changed the world:
Thursday, September 11, 2014
#NeverForget
My seminary teacher showed us a really good Mormon Message in honor of the tragedy that occurred on September 11, 2011. Today is the thirteenth "anniversary" of the tragedy. I was only two when 9/11 happened, but this day every year is still an important reminder to me that the things that matter most should always be our first priority.
You can watch the video here:
https://www.lds.org/media-library/video/2010-05-1170-when-bad-things-happen?lang=eng
#NeverForget the tragedy of 9/11 and honor those who were affected- both those who lived and those who died.
You can watch the video here:
https://www.lds.org/media-library/video/2010-05-1170-when-bad-things-happen?lang=eng
#NeverForget the tragedy of 9/11 and honor those who were affected- both those who lived and those who died.
Monday, September 8, 2014
The Miracle of Your Worth
Today in seminary (a class given to high-school students who are members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints; for more information, visit http://www.mormon.org/values/learning or https://seminary.lds.org/about?lang=eng) we studied Doctrine and Covenants 18:10: "Remember the worth of souls is great in the sight of God." This has always been one of my favorite scriptures. It is truly a miracle that God cares so much each and every one of us, no matter what.
I saw this video in my Facebook newsfeed today and I was touched by it. It even included D&C 18:10. It seemed to bring across exactly what I had learned in seminary- in the words of President Monson, "God's love is simply always there."
Saturday, September 6, 2014
The Miracle of First Impressions
What do you think when you look in the mirror?
In a recent study, people were asked to look in the mirror and describe what they saw. Strangers were on the other side of the mirror, also describing what they saw. The results are really inspiring. You can watch a video, "What Do Strangers Think of You?", at
This study is so powerful to me because it shows that we are harder on ourselves than we are on other people. We need to take a step back and realize that we are all beautiful or handsome or whatever we want to be. I, like many of you I'm sure, often worry about what other people think of me. But what this shows is that we should be worrying about what we think about ourselves, as it's worse than what anyone else thinks. It truly is a miracle how nice people think of you, even when they don't know you. :)
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Thursday, September 4, 2014
"Try" & Change the World
Oooh
Oooh
Put your make up on
Get your nails done
Curl your hair
Run the extra mile
Keep it slim so they like you, do they like you?
Get your sexy on
Don't be shy, girl
Take it off
This is what you want, to belong, so they like you
Do you like you?
You don't have to try so hard
You don't have to give it all away
You just have to get up, get up, get up, get up
You don't have to change a single thing
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try
Yooou don't have to try
Oooh
Oooh
Get your shopping on, at the mall, max your credit cards
You don't have to choose, buy it all, so they like you
Do they like you?
Wait a second,
Why should you care, what they think of you
When you're all alone, by yourself, do you like you?
Do you like you?
You don't have to try so hard
You don't have to give it all away
You just have to get up, get up, get up, get up
You don't have to change a single thing
You don't have to try so hard
You don't have to bend until you break
You just have to get up, get up, get up, get up
You don't have to change a single thing
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try
Yooou don't have to try
Noooo
Oooh
You don't have to try so hard
You don't have to give it all away
You just have to get up, get up, get up, get up
You don't have to change a single thing
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try, try, try, try
You don't have to try
You don't have to try
Take your make up off
Let your hair down
Take a breath
Look into the mirror, at yourself
Don't you like you?
Cause I like you
Friday, July 25, 2014
Dayton's Miracle
"Cerebral palsy is a general term for a group of permanent, non-progressive movement disorders that cause physical disability, mainly in the areas of body movement." It seems like a miracle that someone with cerebral palsy would be able to participate in a triathlon. But that is exactly what Dayton, a Mormon teenager from Arizona with cerebral palsy, was able to do with the help of his friend Spencer.
Spencer served as the deacon quorum president in his LDS ward. This means that he was the youth leader of all of the twelve and thirteen-year-old boys who attended his church that lived in a specific area. Dayton was one of these boys, and Spencer wanted Dayton to be able to participate in everything that the deacons did, including the triathlon. Spencer pushed and pulled Dayton the entire triathlon so that he was able to participate.
I thought that Spencer and Dayton's story was so powerful because it showed that just being a friend can make miracles in people's lives.
An lds.org article, "Racing for Two" describes Spencer and Dayton's experience. The end of the video has a link to a video, "Dayton's Legs," that you can watch.
Racing for Two
MINDY RAYE FRIEDMAN
This deacons quorum president served a quorum member in a unique way.
Imagine competing in a triathlon where you swim 500 meters, bike for 12 miles, and then run for 3.2 miles. Sound pretty hard? Now imagine pushing and pulling a
One of the guys
Dayton, 13, has cerebral palsy and a seizure disorder. He can’t speak or walk, but in the deacons quorum of his ward, he is just one of the guys. When Dayton entered the Young Men program, his dad told the other deacons they would need to help Dayton fulfill his priesthood duties, and the quorum members have taken that challenge seriously.
“When I help Dayton pass the sacrament, I feel as if I am on a mission from Heavenly Father to give him the opportunity to participate in our deacon duties,” says Hunter McKown, a fellow deacon.
“When I got called to be the deacons quorum president, I felt a great sense of responsibility on my shoulders. I knew that I should watch out for everybody in the quorum.”
Along with passing the sacrament with help from his quorum members, Dayton collects fast offerings, does baptisms for the dead, and even goes on campouts with the other young men. They treat him like he is no different from anybody else. And no one is better at this than his quorum president, Spencer.
Spencer, 13, knows what it means to fulfill his priesthood duties, so serving his fellow quorum member just came naturally.
“When I got called to be the deacons quorum president, I felt a great sense of responsibility on my shoulders,” he says. “I knew that I should watch out for everybody in the quorum and make sure they’re doing good.”
The triathlon idea
Spencer loves to run and compete in triathlons. As the deacons quorum president, he encouraged his fellow quorum members to do a triathlon with him. But Dayton wouldn’t be able to do it on his own.
“I thought it would be really cool to do a triathlon with Dayton,” Spencer says. “He should have the opportunity to do and enjoy what everybody else does.”
So Spencer talked to his parents and Dayton’s parents about doing the triathlon with Dayton. Everyone thought it was a great idea, so they asked Dayton if he wanted to do it.
“Spencer went to Dayton and asked him, and Dayton just blinked really definitely like he was really excited about doing a triathlon with him,” says Dayton’s father, John Hayward.
Dayton’s legs
So Spencer trained, and he and Dayton did the triathlon together. For the swim, Spencer pulled Dayton behind him in a small, inflated boat. On the bike, he attached a cart for Dayton to sit in, and on the run, he pushed Dayton in a jogging stroller. The race was hard, but Spencer says he and Dayton “loved every second of it,” and he was grateful to have Dayton with him.
“Throughout the swim, the bike, and the run, I knew that Dayton was five feet from me the whole time,” Spencer says. “It was awesome to know that one of my really good friends could be with me.”
Spencer says he and Dayton grew closer together during the race and that he felt spiritually strengthened.
“Near the finish line was very spiritual for me and Dayton, because I felt that I was out of energy, but then Dayton started smiling. I started to speed up, and I had the energy to sprint the last few hundred yards into the finish line. I felt that the Spirit was there helping Dayton and me to finish that race.”
They ended up finishing in an hour and 28 minutes and won first place in the team category. But Spencer doesn’t want any credit or glory for what he did.
“The triathlon was such a neat experience, because it was hard for Spencer, and yet he made it look easy,” says Dayton’s mom, Sherrine Hayward. “And he always has given the glory to the team. He’s been very humble, and he doesn’t want the spotlight. He wants Dayton to look like the hero, and he’s just Dayton’s legs.”
After the race
Even though Spencer didn’t want the attention, many people were inspired by what he did for his friend. The mayor of the city was so impressed that he made Spencer and Dayton citizens of the month. Throughout the experience, Spencer didn’t take credit for anything, something that really inspired his mother.
“Spencer has shown a lot of humility that has been an example to me,” Shelly Zimmerman says. “He has gotten a lot of attention. Attention that he didn’t want. And the whole time if anyone said, ‘Spencer, this is so cool; you’re so great,’ he turns it around and says, ‘It’s Dayton. Dayton’s on this team too.’”
Spencer was just happy he could serve his friend. “I fulfill my duty to God when I do service for others and I act on what needs to be done,” he says.
Service in the quorum
Spencer knows Dayton loved the triathlon. He could tell from the smile on his face. But he also knows Dayton is happy whenever the members of their quorum include him, so as their quorum leader, he is always encouraging them to serve one another.
“These boys are not inhibited by Dayton at all,” Sherrine Hayward says. “They’re not afraid or intimidated. They all really want to serve, and Spencer shows the boys that it’s not hard; it’s easy to serve.”
And that service goes both ways, as Dayton also serves the members of his quorum by teaching them. “Dayton is a true pleasure to be around because he may not talk but you can sure feel the Spirit when you are around him,” says quorum member Ryan Smith.
“Dayton has been a good friend to me because he has taught me a bunch of life lessons,” Spencer says. “He’s taught me that you can do hard things no matter what your circumstances are. You can be just like everybody else.”
A duty to God
Spencer Zimmerman and Dayton Hayward both used their participation in the triathlon to help fulfill the physical health project for their deacon years in Duty to God.
“The physical health in the new Fulfilling My Duty to God book—we fulfilled that by doing this triathlon and training together,” Spencer says. “Dayton’s got his Duty to God book too, and he can fulfill projects. We can do projects for him that maybe he can’t do, but he does as much as he can, and he loves doing his Duty to God.”
Spencer knows Dayton loved the triathlon. He could tell from the smile on his face.
“I like the new Duty to God because you’re able to create your own plans,” he says. “You get to decide what you do and then act on it. Then you get to share it with everybody and let them receive the blessing that you did and let them feel the way you felt.”
After Spencer and Dayton’s story was made into a video called “Dayton’s Legs,” on youth.lds.org, a Church member in Florida sent the video link to his friend Tracy in Arizona.
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